Friday, May 14, 2010
Eddie v. His Father
One conflict in the story is between Eddie and his father.
The silent, unloving relationship between Eddie and his father left a huge impact on his life. Eddie's father never gave Eddie the love that he wanted, even as a little boy. As a result, Eddie always strove to gain his father's approval and acceptance, and was often neglected. Eddie's father mistook Eddie's post-war depression as laziness and criticized Eddie more. After an incident that left Eddie and his father on non-speaking terms, Eddie's father was brought into a long battle with pneumonia. Eddie's father shared the same hospital room with Ruby's husband, Emile, which allowed Ruby to explain Eddie's father's last moments with Eddie. Eddie is able to finally forgive his father after Ruby shows him that to move forward into heaven, he had to forgive his father, and that holding in hatred, bitterness, and anger would get him nowhere. The conflict is resolved in Ruby's heaven, where Eddie sees his father drinking coffee in a diner; although Eddie's father seems not to notice Eddie, Eddie forgives his father and is able to move on in heaven.
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This is an all too common style of father to son parenting. It has been passed on through generations through my Irish bloodlines. Life was tough. So knock em down so they have no where else to go but up. I was such a father but have since repented. In my mind I actually thought I was preparing my children for life. Young children for lack of perspective accept the opinion of their caregivers and internalize a spirit of guilt and shame. I use the word spirit with intention as I have seen strong evidence that our words and intention can to unleash powerful forces that are beyond our comprehension as suggested in Matthew 18:18.
ReplyDeleteExperiments with water that have been repeated all over the world offer some compelling scientific evidence of the power of intention. https://youtu.be/W80mHIGg9v0 If only to be youthful and know what I know now. Jesus is the way the truth and the life. John 14:6 Be blessed Tommy King